Hey VASC Members! It’s Five for Friday! Jump Start your weekend with these interesting articles, educational links and resources we’ve been “pinning.” Check out these posts concerning girls leadership, fostering resiliency, making kids happy, mass shooting drills, and first generation college students. Follow ‘VASC School Counselor’ on Pinterest to get even more great resources!
PLUS check out our VASC Member Spotlight: Christy Norment of Harrisonburg High School!
“When we try to solve our girls’ problems for them, we send the message that they can’t resolve conflicts on their own. We also tend to make the situation worse. In this video, we share alternatives to getting involved as a first step. By delaying your intervention, and allowing your daughter to wrestle with her options, you have the opportunity to help her…”
“The 7Cs: The Essential Building Blocks of Resiliency. Young people live up or down to expectations we set for them. They need adults who believe in them unconditionally and hold them to the high expectations of being compassionate, generous, and creative.”
“But while wanting happiness for our children makes sense, decades of research presents a paradox: Focusing on happiness is not a great way to actually be happy.
Happiness, it turns out, is not an end in itself. It’s a consequence, not a goal.”
“Proponents argue the more realistic the drill is, the less likely students are to feel and act unprepared in a true scenario. Yet a growing number of parents and psychologists argue that this immersive approach in the country’s schools isn’t justified by worthy statistics. After all, the chance of any student dying in a school-related shooting is one in 2.5 million.
So, while the debate over how far is too far remains fragile ground, what continues to be strikingly underreported is that glaring, albeit obvious, question: What does the trauma curriculum actually teach?”
“His dad couldn’t afford a hotel, so they took about an hour to unpack the car, said their goodbyes, and his dad drove off. Chris Reynolds was officially on his own. He thought he was pretty prepared. He had a dorm room, a meal plan and a couple hundred bucks to last until he found a job. What he wasn’t prepared for was how lonely and out of place he felt on campus.”
And be sure to check out our latest GRADUATE STUDENT OF THE MONTH POST!
Have a wonderful weekend,
Your Virginia Alliance for School Counseling Board